The protagonist is a close friend of yours, & you have noticed that s/he has been behaving oddly. You want to talk to him / her about it, but 1st you decide to closely observe him, his friends, & family. Now you are ready to talk to him/her. Remember to
~ name the behavior that you are noticing.
~ Tell him / her what you are thinking about his / her behavior.
~ tell him / her what they, friends, or family have done to make you think this.